hounsellsandy
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Bio
I am the ‘Healthy Love Relationship Expert’ helping ambitious, professional women have strong, lasting healthy relationships which support their needs and desires and who are determined not to get into another bad relationship.
Early on, I knew there was something different about me. I was able to make strong connections to anyone I just met, the kind of connection that can only be built through a lifetime of friendship and trust. It is a superpower developed over a spiritual lifetime of spiritual development, learning, healing mediumship and psychic development (40 + years), is my ability to ‘see’ and permanently transform the root cause of the blocks which deny women access to the love they seek. Seeing the patterns also enables me to help build connections between people more easily.
My specialty is helping women who have experienced abuse.
How Did I get Here?
I realised when I was in my early teens, actually when I reached 12 that I had real relationship issues brought about by a constant deep sense of loneliness and rejection. I found myself acting like a limpet attaching to anyone who showed me some interest. I grew up in what I felt at the time was a really close family, well that was up to when I reached 12 and then it all fell downhill. Loneliness haunted me for 7 years.
I realised just how anxious I used to be about making friends and longing for people like me. It drove me nuts and and was very exhausting. Always giving my energy away and leaving me feeling emptier than before. I was on constant lookout for approval.
Relationships always dogged me and healthy relationships especially avoided me like the plague, or so I thought. The only time I felt good being me was in sport where I excelled and felt confident. Elsewhere though in my life …nope…not even a hint. Consequently interpersonal relationships in which I maintained any semblance of identity or self esteem without judgement or blame has been the biggest growth area in my life. I now know this is something my soul wanted to learn and what a ride it has been.