paulakalik
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Bio
I first became interested in the psychology of the mind after graduating as a BSc in Psychology in 1998. Since then I have studied in depth as how the mind works and the processes involved, particularly with trauma which can lead to a person just not feeling good enough or deserving of happiness. My own experience of this meant even if I did get to a comfortable place in life, for some reason discomfort would follow. Somehow I would sabotage my happiness, of course not intentionally, but it would and has happen time over, sound familiar?
I worked very hard to make an Interior design business which was very successful for many years, then I invested in in property development and property investment, and before I knew it I went bust with the .com crash. Bankrupt and left with no home I had to get myself back up and use my skills and all the strength I could muster to find a way of getting past this traumatic time in my life. Deeply depressed I found it hard to get out of bed and that voice in my head kept telling me how useless I was, how I should not have gone above my station, how dare a mere woman think she could be so successful, and so forth. It was not pretty, after a few months on anti-depressants which did little to help me; I had to find a way to get laughter back in my life. I studied psychology, why couldn’t I find a way; I am smart so I could find a way and much more was whirling around on that nonstop merry go round in my head. It was then when I took the action to heal myself with studying Hypnosis, then Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) followed by psychotherapy, emotional freedom techniques (EFT), eye motion desensitizing and repossessing (EMDR) therapist/trainer and mindfulness practitioner/trainer. Today I am a Master Hypnotherapist, a Master NLP Coach, an Advanced certified EFT Practitioner, a mindfulness teacher and trainer. I am also happy to tell you that whatever trauma comes my way I find a way of dealing with it by taking control of my emotions and taking action, was it not for my education I would not be able to do this so I thank my history for allowing me this.
My office is in Leicester, UK and the clients I attract are very much life me in some respects. Most have suffered a trauma that has left them emotionally scarred and feeling unworthy and they can see no way out of the victim state. My experiences have helped me to help clients to find a way to live in the present and dump the un-useful past that stops them fulfilling their full life’s potential. I work remotely by phone, Skype or Zoom so there are no boundaries to prevent a client from seeking help.
I love to train either online or live training events, and I have several e-books for self-help. You can also purchase self-help course or join one of our accredited level 5 courses in Hypnotherapy/psychotherapy and EFT and mindfulness courses. My passion is working with people to facilitate the change they need to gain clarity in life to enable them to aspire to their dreams. All I wish for anyone is to be at peace with your thought. In February 2017 I will start training and mentoring in the Energy Alignment Method (EAM) which is an amazing tool to help release blockages in energy and get into flow. To find out more about my complimentary events and clarity calls please get in touch, you have nothing to lose but your fears, and everything to gain.