Help!
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Someone is recommending vile criminal acts and I can’t figure out how to report them
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This is encouraging rape and giving various abusive tactics on how to achieve it. I haven’t been through all their articles but this one is disgusting. I’m not sure it’s legal to even advocate such things
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I realize my article on how men can confront their wife’s sexual refusal may be shocking to your humanist values. But I hope you know you are not the first to be shocked and appalled by it and you certainly won’t be the last. This article has been reported to WordPress.com countless times since I wrote it about 5 years ago. And thankfully WordPress.com still believes in freedom of religion and freedom of speech.
I am allowed to speak of what I believe is moral or immoral behavior from a Christian and Biblical perspective. You may hate it. You may dislike it. But I am allowed to speak it.
And anyone reading this article you mention, or other articles I have written that I link to from this article will see I NEVER once tell men to go and physically force themselves on their wives. In fact, I consistently warn against it. All the methods I recommend for a man confronting his wife’s sexual refusal are non-physical. He rebukes her. He stops taking her on dates. He stops giving her money for non-necessity things while still providing for her necessities of life. He takes her before his clergy. And then if none of those non-physical things work he divorces her.
I realize your modern humanist definition of rape is if a man puts any kind of pressure on a woman, even as much as telling her he won’t take her on a date or buy her a new couch and that if she grudgingly agrees to give him his marital right, because he won’t do those things for her, that is rape. Do you realize how ridiculous your thinking is?
You won’t find a jury in the country that would convict a man of rape because he refused to take his wife on a date or buy his wife new furniture and so because she wanted those things she started having sex with her husband again.
Yes there are limits on freedom of speech. Such as the “Imminent lawless action” concept. If someone is making a specific threat toward a certain person or group that is not covered by free speech. So for instance, the death threats that I get on a regular basis and report are an example of “Imminent lawless action”. They are specific and targeted.
I have had attorneys from a Christian legal association review the wording of this article, as well as several other controversial articles I have written, and they have assured me I don’t even come close to violating the “Imminent lawless action” exception to the first amendment.
So if you want to waste your breath and about 15 minutes again of someone at WordPress.com’s time. Go right ahead.
But at some point in your life though, you will have to realize that many Americans still believe in freedom of speech and religion and we don’t have to think like you or hold to your humanist moral standards.
Have a nice day.
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Oh and just to be clear, the “a specific threat” toward someone has to be a threat of violence. It is not a threat of “I won’t take you on a date” or “I will tell our Pastor” if you won’t have sex with me.
And as I have said many times. It is a free country. A woman is free in America to divorce her husband if she chooses for any reason she desires. And in modern America, she will even get a golden parachute in the form of child support and perhaps alimony along with half of everything he has. This is why marriage is so much more risky for men than it is for women. This is not hating on women, this is simply stating a fact.
But what a wife can’t do is have her cake and eat it too. No mam. She does not get to deny her husband her body and yet have no consequences. She does not get to deny him yet continue to have him take her on dates, and get her all the niceties of life she wants and continue to have free and unfettered spending power. No. She can divorce him and get to half his his stuff, but she can never have 100% and continue to deny him his marital rights if he realizes he has the power to take action to show her consequences for her actions.
And that is what my blog has been doing now for 6 years, equipping men with Biblically based knowledge for confronting the immoral things women do in marriage.
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No religious freedom puts you above the law. Using economic abuse to make someone who is financially dependant on you have sex with you is legally considered rape. Using guilt and shame is to make someone do what you want is abuse. The definition of “force” is “make (someone) do something against their will” You are recommending tactics to bypass a womans will and force them to do your will. The very fact that you start your article by denying the existence of marital rape shows how wrong you are legally (I wont bother talking morally because it is obvious you have no morals) I hope that the men who have raped women on your advise are jailed and I hope you are charged for your part in causing irreparable trauma and ruining lives. Personally I think it well worth the time for wordpress to review everything you have written to prevent harm.
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